The recruiters I realized were not there to put you down and to just sign you up for anything that's there. They were there to help you, to better yourself for your future not only while you're in the Army but for after you get out of the Army for your future family and for the rest of your life.
If I had a friend that asked me what the process was coming in talking to a recruiter, I'd tell them just go in and talk to the recruiter and they will square you away with anything that you want to know. They will help you even if you're having family problems, that's what they're there for. They're there to talk and that's a good thing about the recruiters I've noticed is they're there for you no matter what the issue is.